How to Show Someone You Care

You might care a lot about someone, but if you're not showing them you care, they won't know it. You have to make an effort to show that person that you really care about them. It's also important to be aware of the way in which you are going to show them you care because what might give that message to you might not be the same for the other person.

For example, perhaps complimenting someone, from your point of view, shows you care about them because you took the time to notice something and say something about it.

This might not be the case for the person receiving the compliment, and they may just view it as something kind you said, and that's it. This is why it is very important to know how to show someone you care. 

Importance of Showing Someone You Care

In order to feel someone's interest or love, you have to feel like that person cares about you. You have to feel like you matter to them like you are important to them. If the other person does a bad job at showing that, you will likely have a hard time feeling their love or that you matter to them, understandably.

It's very important to show the people around you that you care for them, especially someone you would like to pursue a romantic relationship with. Often when someone feels cared for, they trust you more and feel comfortable around you. These are just a few of the additional benefits you will obtain when you show someone you care about them.

Reasons Why You Want to Show Someone You Care

These are some of the most common reasons you want to show someone you care.

1. To show them how much they matter to you. It is of utmost importance that they know they matter to you. This will make them significantly interested in you. Everyone likes to feel like they matter to someone.
2. So they know you are interested in pursuing something with them. By showing you care, you are taking an interest in that person, which can help show them you are interested in something more with them.
3. So they know you are there for them. By showing them you care, they will feel heard and seen. They will know that you are there for them when you are going through a hard time.

Two Main Ways to Demonstrate You Care

There are two main ways you can demonstrate your care to someone. It can be through the things you do for the other person or through the things you tell them.

1. With your actions. Showing them you care through your actions is likely the most effective way to show someone you care. This could be shown by doing something nice for them, bringing them a gift, showing affection, etc. 
2. With your words. Expressing your care with your words is just as important as doing so with your actions. People like hearing how much they mean to you. Tell them how much you appreciate them, say nice things to them, give them compliments, and tell them you care about them.

Seven Ways to Show Someone You Care

These are the best ways to show someone you care.

1. Be direct and tell them.

The best approach is usually to be direct with what you want to say. This avoids misunderstandings or confusion, and it gets your message across the quickest. Although you are taking a more direct approach, think about what you will say and how you will deliver your words, so it sounds nice and thought out. 

2. Do something nice for them.

Doing something nice for someone is a great way to show them you care. Especially when you go out of your way to show a kind gesture, that will really express how much you care for the person.

Some nice things you could do for someone to show them you care are to open the door for them, help them carry something if their hands are full, or help them with another difficult task. 

3. Give compliments.

Everyone likes being told nice or sweet things. Complimenting someone about something they are wearing, for example, will show you were paying attention to detail in their clothing. Complimenting someone on their looks means you noticed that certain something about them.

If the person feels you were paying attention to specific things about them and noticing little things, they will feel you care about them.

4. Be affectionate towards them.

This is a great way to show someone you care about them without necessarily having to express yourself with words. For example, you could hold their hand or put your arm around them while walking to make them feel safer close to you, or you could hug them to make them feel better if they are going through something difficult.

5. Remember little things about them.

Any time someone remembers something small that perhaps is insignificant to anyone else, you're going to feel seen or heard, in turn making you feel like you matter. Do your best to remember seemingly insignificant details and important things about the person. This could range from some of their interests or hobbies to details about them such as when their birthday is. 

6. Listen to them.

Be a good listener when they are speaking to you. Interrupting them in the middle of a conversation will only make them think you don't really care about what they are saying, and then they may feel that you don't care about them either. Listening requires you to pay attention to what they are saying and participate in the conversation, not just hearing what they have to say. 

7. Prioritize them.

If you really want to show someone you care, make them a priority. Of course, some things may require more of your attention at times, but make sure the person you are interested in is on your list of priorities, dedicate time to listening to them, and spend time with them. 

Things to Avoid Doing When Showing Someone You Care

Although you have the best intentions when showing someone you care about them, you should keep these things in mind and avoid doing them if you want to succeed.

Don't be too intense.

You wouldn't want to come off too strong. Ease into things, and little by little, show them you care about them more and more. Move at a good pace, and you will be fine. 

Don't forget to communicate.

As much as you want to make sure you are being a good listener, make sure you are also participating in the conversation. Letting them do all the talking will put pressure on them, and perhaps they will feel uncomfortable. This may not be directly showing that you are not interested in them, but it won't contribute positively to giving them the idea that you are.  

Don't care so much that it's all you care about.

Balance is important. Care about them, care about them a lot, make sure they know how much you care about them, but don't care about them so much that it's all you are focused on. It's good for them to be a priority, but just that, one of the many priorities you may have. Never become so absorbed by someone that you forget about other aspects of your life. 

To conclude

Making sure the person that means so much to you knows that you care gives you the chance to do very kind things for them and show them your sweetest, most considerate side. Make sure you follow the tips mentioned above to show them you care in the best ways possible.

The most popular ways to show someone you care are by doing nice things for them or giving them compliments, being there for them, whether that is as a good listener, or simply by providing your support. Start with one of those, and just ease into it, these things won't go unnoticed by them.